Cameron - A Mother's Perspective Rules!

Cam the man rocks! In a nutshell he is Intelligent, motivated, proactive, creative, visionary, talented, hard working, spiritual, and capable. He is well educated, loves sports, travel, adventure, music, reading, nature, finance and his dog; and he especially loves his family and fiancée deeply! He is tender, loving, caring, thoughtful, and is emotionally healthy. He has been taught to be a real man, one who is comfortable cuddling and kissing his precious little nephew Connor, who holds doors open for women, and who is protective of and shows respect and affection for his parents, sister, brother-in-law, and others. He easily demonstrates sincere emotion, affection and devotion; and is a happy, cheerful individual who is a man who loves God and his savior Jesus Christ having a strong testimony of the gospel of Jesus Christ. He seeks to magnify the Priesthood which he holds through service, leadership, and a caring heart. He is crazy-fun and uplifting to be around, is genuine and nurturing. However, has he ticked me off on occasion? Yes! Has he been known to struggle at times? Of course. Can he be impatient and needs space from the constant noise of life and drivel of endless chatter? Yes indeed. Is he aware of his imperfections and has a need to improve when prudent? Of course. He's just like the rest of us who are attempting to chart our paths through life and perfect our souls This is the incredible son we reared together, Jon and I, in a home filled with love, laughter, joy, and endearing traditions with Gods constant guidance. Once a child now a man with the agency to choose the caliber of life he will continue to live and level of integrity he will continue to exert. I love my son with all of my heart and soul; it was a remarkable journey raising him considering the imperfect mother that I am! PS He always without fail says, "I love you!" at the close of every phone call - yep, he's a keeper! (wink) ... And as a soon to be new husband he's in for the most interesting and exciting adventure of his life.:)

 Kirtland, Ohio (church historical site)

His little Halloween costume we picked up in China Town, San Francisco :)

Cam as a baby in Orem and with his baby sister he wished on a star for in Pittsburgh!

 

Provo Temple sealing with grandma and grandpa 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I hope they call me on a mission ... they did to Hong Kong :)

 

Cam with his new little nephew Connor

Five Generations of Lace

Five Generations of Lace - The tender role of hankies in my families lives

September 27, 2014 at 11:37am    (This is an account I posted on my facebook wall sometime back which I want my children, grandchildren, etc., to read and enjoy on this blog.

 

Years back when serving in our LDS stake (geographical area consisting of many church members in each congregation) we as stake leaders and spouses  enjoyed an incredible spiritual, fun retreat.  I wrote this account about the role of a simple handkerchief in my life, and in the generations of my grandmothers through my great-great-great grandmothers.  I tied a beautiful lace hankie to my account and presented them to the sisters (women holding various positions of leadership in the stake) in whom I knew could also relate to the memories I shared.  This account is part of my next up upcoming book, "Passionately INHALE life and EXHALE gratefulness." which I am currently working on.  Today, I am sending all of you sweet female FB friends a "virtual hankie" in recognition of your own challenges, achievements, struggles, and triumphs! 

FIVE GENERATIONS OF LACE – by Rebecca Mills Christeson 1991 serving as stake Relief Society president for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Pittsburgh East stake for a spiritual/fun couples retreat for all stake leaders and spouses J  I gave this written account along with a lace hankie to each of the sisters.  Our stake president was the incredible Roy Wennerholm who was proactive, visionary, supportive of all of my ideas designed to bless the sisters lives throughout our stake, from training to women’s conferences!  Our stake later became Pittsburgh North Stake wherein I continued serving as the stake RS president. 

Handmade hankies; crisp and white, crocheted, tatted or trimmed with lace were always carried by the women in my family; their purpose, often times being, to discretely dab at tender tears, cover a “cha-cho” or used for silent hand wringing during times of bereavement, stress or worry.

Handmade hankies so lovingly and painstakingly created have never ceased to bestow their magic when used to entertain little ones.  Hankies lulled them into attentive silence as curious eyes watch intently as corners are rolled toward the center and folded inside out making “two babes in a cradle” to be rocked between pudgy little fingers.

Our handmade hankies have been carried reverently on ones wedding day, to sacrament meetings and temple sessions.  They have joined us during times of great joy such as births, adoptions, blessings, ordinations, settings a part and during many personal family prayers.

They have also been clutched, ever so tightly, in our hands during times of turmoil, grief and uncertainty.  And upon ones death – a pure, white lace edged hankie is laid to rest between the fingers of two loving work worn hands.

Our handmade hankies have seen us through the myriad of emotions and circumstances found in mortal life …

Hankies have traveled across the cold, barren plains in handcarts and covered wagons.  My great-great grandmothers, who were Mormon pioneers, used them to mop perspiration from fevered brows, to shoo away persistent flies and they waved them high above their heads as valiant, heartfelt goodbyes were bade to family and friends left behind.

My grandmother, Maggie Elizabeth Orr Beck, with her circles of rouge on her cheeks, net covered hat securely placed a top her head and fresh white gloves precisely smoothed over her fingers never left for literary club or a visit to one of her eleven living children without her fresh, white hankie.

A small, pink satin sectional bag was her special keeping place for these handmade treasures.  White lace and the scent of sachet beckoned the curious eyes of many a granddaughter!  What a privilege it was to examine each beautiful work of art – those dainty swatches of fabric folded so neatly waiting to be taken out and examined by one who would admire the handiwork.

My mother dear used her hankies as a child’s make believe bonnet, for games of peek-a-boo and to cover small baby dolls keeping them warm and cozy.  Mothers hankies were often used for childhood games of “This little Doggie won’t bite you” (similar to duck-duck-goose) a delight of all young birthday party guests.  They were also tied in a knot around a few loose coins so that little hands wouldn’t lose them on the way to the store or to some form of amusement.

Lace trimmed hankies also served as a privacy lining in an elegant, clear clutch bag adored with rhinestones.  This combination was used for special occasions and “dress up” evenings out, by my mother, when being escorted by my handsome and clever father.

My own hankies have traveled far and wide with me to exciting places I dreamed of as a child; from Broadway theaters in New York City to the beaches of Hawaii and the Bahamas.  They have accompanied me to the red rock deserts and rugged mountain trails of my beloved Utah.  They have been quietly tucked inside my pocket during magical fantasy excursions to places such as Disneyland or Disney World as well as to national and church historical sites:  Gettysburg, Kirkland, Palmyra, and Washington D.C.

Like my family before me, hankies have been used to bandage an imaginary hurt arm of our precious daughters’ dolls, they have wiped away tears caused by a sensitive son’s broken heart and they have even waved with great enthusiasm when greeting my sweet husband at the airport, upon his return from a business trip.

It has often been commented upon that I am frequently seen with a fresh, white hankie in hand.  My answer to this comment is, “What greater privilege could a scrap of cloth with a smidgen of lace have, than to have traveled to the various wards and branches throughout Pittsburgh East Stake!”

My hankies wave hello, they dab at “others” tears who have need of their ready availability and they have been clutched ever so tightly to my heart as I bear testimony to the truthfulness of the gospel; and express my love and concern for all who are so very dear to me here in Pennsylvania.  These opportunities have seemed to give my hankies even great occasion for purpose and use.

Therefore, please accept this humble, lace edged hankie as a token of my love and appreciation for you as a friend and sister in the gospel.  Understand, more fully, its heritage, its sense of purpose and tradition and like those, similar to it, which have been carried by the many generations of strong, confident, capable and loving women in my family – may it be “your” gentle companion through both the bitter and the sweet times still ahead!

My best!

Rebecca L. Christeson

Pittsburgh East Stake Relief Society president, 1991-1996)

Copyright © Rebeecca Christeson 2014

2014 has been a swell year!

 Our year in a nut shell has been filled with joy and laughter, fears and tears, challenges, love and insurmountable blessings!  This is not one of my crazy-fun family holiday newsletters but this will give you a general idea of many occurrences we have experienced this year.

A delightful wintery visit cross country to spend time with our precious daughter, son-in-law, and grandson was enjoyed in early 2014.  This gave me much needed grandmother time for giggles, snuggles, story telling, Primary song singing and holding our little one close as I whispered words of wisdom into his ear and we laughed and played together :)  Cameron also made his own surprise appearance at his sister's home (see photo below).  He parked himself on her former sidewalk in a chair dressed in a robe reading a newspaper; when she came out to go to school SURPRISE there he was out of the blue!  These two have the coolest brother-sister relationship e-v-e-r!

Our brilliant talented, loving, caring dauhter graduated from college magna cum laude in the field of education.  Jon, Cam and I flew out to cheer her on with her sweet husband, baby boy and grandma Hansen.  We then flew to Florida from Utah for a fun family celebration at Disney World and Universal Studios.  Ashley is a devoted Harry Potter and Disney fan!  We had a blast and it went by way too fast.

Ash and Connor then soon flew back home to Pittsburgh for a couple of weeks while Paul was busy with his military summer camp.  We celebrated an early first birthday for Connor and enjoyed more fun time with them both!  This was Ashley's last trip home to see friends and familiar places and sleep in her own bedroom before we left the area.  It was such a joy having her and the baby home with us; Ash has grown into such a devoted, loving, caring, thoughtful, capable, daughter, wife and mother - we are very proud of her.

I was on cloud nine early June when I was notified that my book Inspire: Women's Stories of Accomplishment, Encouragement and Influence had been published and now selling on Amazon!  It is a compilation of accounts from twenty five women around the country and was a delightful process!  Now I look forward to completing my manuscripts Training With A Twist for business and a version for parents and teens; also some other works in the progress which are dear to my heart.  As soon as my new office is ready I can't wait to hunker down and work on these projects as well as my personal and family histories!

I unfortunately then found myself facing some serious health challenges which required surgery and still more to come.  Hey, I've been this route before and as dreadful as it can be these experiences help to further teach me patience and strengthen my faith!  I always seek to have an attitude of gratitude and feel richly blessed for each day I have on this earth with my dear family.

Jon tirelessly worked on our home inside and out so as to list it with a very proactive realtor.  He did a marvelous job being the thorough, perfectionist he is; and though it was a beast of burden his efforts paid off and it sold very quickly to a sweet young couple who could see themselves living in this special home of ours.  We lived in this home for 27 years!  We always meant to move but became very involved with church callings, careers, and our kids lives and pursuits so we stayed put and filled our home with love, family, friends, experiences and treasured memories.  Cam wished on a star for his little baby sister when he was five though our sun burst window at the peak of our vaulted ceiling in the living room and she came true - hey it doesn't get any better than that (wink).

Cameron had returned to Pittsburgh the summer prior with his career to our delight!  Having him home after literally being away for ten years due to college, mission and work (except for short holiday visits) was a choice experience.  He is such a positive influence in every life he touches and we enjoy his positive, cheerful, hardworking, spiritual attitude! While in our home ward he served as the first counselor in the Sunday School presidency but then attended the single adult ward in Oakland and served as the ward clerk.  It was such fun meeting him for dinner or a movie when he wasn't working long hours or off with friends.  And he loved being home once again attending Pens, Pirates and Steelers games with Jon and doing other fun things with Jon and I.  However, many good things must come to a close in life, and as the Lord would have it he had finally met the woman of his dreams who he felt was to become his eternal companion!  He interviewed for positions within his company so as to transfer to California where Sarah lives and is going to school and was hired in the bay area to his excitement.  This has been wonderful for them to live closer to one another and to more fully explore this new relationship.  Sarah flew out to visit Cam and see his Pittsburgh life before he left the burgh and we enjoyed a lovely visit with her!  They spent their time exploring the city, traveling to Washington D.C. to do a temple session together and to see some of the monuments, as well as hang with our family; and let me just say that flaming snowballs at the end of summer were on my menu (wink).

With all of our belongings placed in storage Jon and I set off for Utah early fall having accepted Ashley and Paul's gracious invitation to live with them while our home is being built in the southern part of the state.  Yikes!  Poor kids having mom and dad hanging around day in and day out but it has turned out to be such a choice experience!  Spending time with them and little Connor while enjoying all of the holidays together has been a once in a lifetime experience, and our wildly fun late night Rook games rock!  A few adjustments here and there but overall it has been a great blessing being together in all of our lives!  Jon and I have so much fun with our little babe and have been able to teach him many things, and getting to know Paul even better has been such a treat!  Paul is an awesome man; he is very cheerful, hardworking, loving and devoted to his sweet little family.  As for us, after so many years of Jon serving as a Bishop, Bishops counselor, on the High Council twice, stake Young Men's presidency, ward Young Men's president, etc., and myself having served as a stake Relief Society president, stake Activities chair, Gospel Essentials and Gospel Doctrine instructor, Relief Society counselor and instructor attempting to make a positive impact in others lives in a meaningful way it has been somewhat odd to be a visitor in Ashley and Paul's ward.  A lovely ward, wonderful experience but very different from the many years of service in Pittsburgh Third Ward.  We are looking forward to becoming involved in our new ward in St. George!  We have so many treasured memories of friends and experiences from Western Pennsylvania - memories we will always hold dear.

Some key experiences and happenings while living here with the kids has also included getting to see Ashley's students who are part of her show choir perform for Halloween and Christmas.  Ash was hired by a new elementary school part time as the music teacher and she loves this opportunity!  She's very creative, has a passion for music, and the voice of an angel plus she loves children so it was an excellent fit.  Also, she and Paul accepted a calling in church serving as the Nursery leaders with little Connor attending with his mommy and daddy.  Paul has also been meeting with the missionaries which is very exciting!

While here Jon and I have made several trips back and forth to our new home to oversee its progress and also tackle the daunting task of transferring our life from 2,000 miles away.  Everything from new insurance, new doctors, furniture shopping, to a myriad of details necessary to move into this new chapter of our lives.  It has been tedious at times and also very exciting as well.

Now that Jon's mom has been moved into a lovely assisted living center near our new home, and his oldest sister and our niece and her family have all relocated near by it will be great fun getting the Christeson side of our family together for fun and frolic. 

Cam settled into his new place of residence and job which he enjoys and he and Sarah became engaged recently!!  We are thrilled and love this incredible girl to pieces.  Sarah is a delight!  Emotionally healthy, motivated, spiritual, cheerful, hard working, family oriented, etc.  She recently earned her degree in elementary ed and is now pursuing further specialized education to become a middle school math teacher.

We have experienced great sadness of late due to the passing of my very dear uncle Malcolm Beck.  Malc was an incredible man and our family loves him, aunt Sharon and their kids dearly!  I've always known that Malc sat on various boards, served as Mayor of American Fork and as a County Commissioner; also that he was an incredible husband and father but until we heard all that my cousins (his children) shared regarding the caliber of dad and grandpa he was I was not aware of all that made up this extraordinary man!  He and Sharon have been like second parents to me and grandparents to our children.  Malc loved my mom (his sister) dearly as she loved him; both he and Sharon are two of the most Christ-like people I have ever known!  We know we will see him again after this life and until then his loving presence will be strongly felt by all.

Our year ended by celebrating two Christmas celebrations.  One with Paul and Ash before they left on their trip with Paul's folks which included an early visit from Santa for Connor and a special family night focusing on angels and blessings.  And then Christmas in Las Vegas where we met up with Cam and Sarah for a few days of family time, a lovely session in the Las Vegas LDS temple together, and a repeat family night focus.  Both were wonderful experiences being with all of our kidlets and sharing in the celebration of our Savior's birth.

I am now scheduled for another surgery, a bit unsettling but needed in preparation to further sustain my life.  We are dealing with the grief of our sweet little beagle dog Missybellebuttons who appears to be gong blind which breaks our hearts; and our home should close within the coming month for which we eagerly await with great anticipation!  We will have easy access to visiting Ashley's family frequently and Cam and Sarah as well.  Life is a blessing each and every day no matter what we experience next.  I count myself fortunate to still be in love with the cool guy I met at age 14 in high school and went on to marry and create this wonderful life with.  This coming new year we will be celebrating 40 years of a most remarkable, happy, loving, adventurous marriage!  Over the hill Barbie and mid-life crisis Ken continue to rock and roll hahaha :)  ...  "Grow old along with me, the best is yet to be.  The last of life for which the first was made."

We wish you an outstanding 2015!  Take some sound risks folks, have some fun, laugh and cry and hold each other tight as its bound to be an incredible ride!  

 

 

 

 

 Jon as a little boy - my favorite pic of him!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

God's love for each of us ...

This has been a very exciting, adventure filled year for our family!  Surprises, challenges, fears, tears, smiles, rewards and all have been blessings from our Heavenly Father as He further sculpts from within the caliber of people we continue to become!  

Though family and friends read my blog on occasion I write primarily for our children, their spouses, our grandchildren, and extended family members.  Hopefully my blog will out last me and my posterity will enjoy accessing all of the information I continue to post to help inspire them and help them realize how blessed they are to be members of this incredible Latter-day Saint family circle. 

Nothing is more important than cultivating ones testimony of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ; or remaining actively engaged in his church - The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.  It is through our faith and commitment to God's commandments and the principles of the gospel that we grow and remain strong.  Our lives are enriched and our path more sure in returning to our loving Father in Heaven after this mortal life if we remain proactively obedient in all things.

I bare my testimony to you that God lives and loves all of His children on this earth.  I love my many friendships and associations with individuals from diverse cultures, ethnicity, religious and political backgrounds.  Our friends practice various forms of Christianity, Judaism, Islam, Hinduism, Buddhism, etc.  They are good people, parents, businessmen and women and civic and community leaders.  My life is richer with greater depth as a result of their influence.  With that said I feel it important to once again (as I have many times on my blog and through social media) share with all who read this, meet me on the street, sit in one of my classrooms or speaking engagements hear that God loves you!  He loves each of us so much he sent a savior, Jesus Christ, to us to teach us and set an example for us to follow.  And through Christ's love for us he atoned for our sins and short comings so that we might be forgiven and perfect ourselves so as to return to his presence and the presence of our Heavenly Father.  Christ's true church is on this earth today - The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.  It is a loving, caring church where we learn to love and serve one another as Christ loves and serves us.

Being a serious member of his church gives me hope and direction.  It is my anchor in life and helps me seek to be the most effective woman, wife, mother, and grandmother I can possibly be.  I have taught or spoken to literally thousands of people from diverse backgrounds, age, work levels and so forth and the message I weave into every topic I address is of God's love for us and of our Savior's love for us; and their desire that we experience joy in this life and seek to reach our full potential.  

Each of us are unique individuals with our own path to follow and story to tell.  Our talents, interests, experiences are as different as the vast array of flowers on this earth are different one from another.  However, we all have one God and one Savior and they are within whispering distance when we pray for guidance or comfort.  They along with the angels in heaven and each of our dear loved ones who have already passed from this mortal life are cheering for our success; and our ability to face trials and challenges with courage and sure faith that each is meant to teach and strengthen us. 

Life is an extraordinary adventure everyone!  A joyous, sometimes zany, sometimes heart wrenching, but fulfilling and satisfying journey.  If you haven't already, kneel in prayer and ask your Father in Heaven if what I am sharing with you is true!  Take a sound risk and seek to learn more about the gospel of Jesus Christ and of his plan for you and your family.  Go to www.lds.org for more information or contact me directly.

Count your many blessings folks and may you enjoy a wondrous, adventurous, happy New Year in 2015.  As I always like to say, "Passionately INHALE life and EXHALE gratefulness!"